Social Etiquette

Texting, texting, 1, 2, 3

By Arden / October 17, 2011 /

Recently, I received an email from a colleague who said a hiring manager from a large, somewhat conservative company, texted her the information on her interview. She responded via email because she thought texting him back would be too informal. She emailed me to ask if that was the correct thing to do. I responded…

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Six tips for remembering names

By Arden / October 5, 2011 /

Has this ever happened to you? You’re talking to someone and another person you know walks up but you’ve forgotten their name, so you don’t introduce them to the first person. It’s pretty awkward isn’t it? Well take consolation in the fact that it happens to the best of us. However, if you work on…

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P’s & Q’s: 5 Tips to Get Your Child Writing Great Thank You Notes

By Arden / September 25, 2011 /

This is a guest post by J.J. Mogan, a writer for Parchment. Any parent knows that getting children to complete even the simplest tasks, such as putting pajamas in the clothes hamper or turning a light off when leaving a room, is near impossible. How then are we expected to teach wee-ones the seemingly abject…

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What do I do now?

By Arden / August 29, 2011 /

A friend of mine was recently traveling and shared something that happened to her while flying that made her wonder about the etiquette of the situation.

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The house guest who is invited back

By Arden / August 23, 2011 /

I asked my Facebook friends for etiquette dilemmas or issues they wanted me to address in my next blog post. One person asked me to speak to the etiquette of being a house guest. She asked, “What do you do with the bed linens when you’re leaving? If you’ve been there more than 3-4 days…

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Shower with care

By Arden / July 18, 2011 /

This is a guest post by blogger Abby Reph. The season of showering our friends with gifts and finger food is upon us. With it come a kaleidoscope of etiquette questions; after all, showers are one of those rare social occasions where few guests know anyone else at the event; awkwardness is nearly a guarantee.…

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Let them save face

By Arden / July 14, 2011 /

Recently, I was working with a client who wanted help on relationship building. As I always do in my individual consulting I observe and offer feedback on my client’s strengths and areas of opportunity. This client was very organized and quick to complete the forms I sent him before our first meeting. I’m usually good…

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Is it time to update the etiquette for addressing a married woman?

By Arden / June 29, 2011 /

A few years ago, my sister addressed an envelope to my dad and step-mom as “Mr. and Mrs. John Clise”. That is the proper way to address an envelope to a married couple. However, my step-mother was not pleased with being called “Mrs. John Clise”. She stated she has her own identity separate from my…

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What do shoeless driving and etiquette have in common?

By Arden / June 20, 2011 /

The other day, as I drove to give a client training, I took my right pump off so I wouldn’t scuff it on the car mat. I don’t usually do that. As I felt my stockinged foot pressing on the gas pedal the very different sensation made me question if I was shifting properly. I…

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Are you trying to escape me?

By Arden / June 13, 2011 /

Recently, I had coffee with someone I had met at a conference. We agreed to meet at 2:00 and I had a client meeting at 3:30. I knew I would have to leave at 3:00 to have enough time to get to the client’s office. I thought about saying something to her at the beginning…

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